We all have a father program residing in our mind cloud. That program affects how we engage with ourselves, our relationships, and the world around us. It deeply affects the degree to which we attract separation or togetherness.

How? Through resonance. Our father program comes to us through the resonance of our dad; whoever replaced him; or, for far too many of us, the lack of a father figure due to a father’s physical or emotional absence.

And it’s part of a collective father program that, li...

Do you make lists? Do you wake up daily to tackle the ever-growing list and go to bed unsatisfied when you haven’t crossed off every item?

If you’re run by a human doing program, this is very likely related to your mother program. Like you, your mother probably knew no other way but to do, do, do. This program was uploaded to your mind program from the moment of conception and reinforced by societal and cultural definitions of success as doing ever more.

For many mothers this program is so ...

“Mother’s love is peace.”

— Erich Fromm

We each enter this world through the portal of our mother. Her body nurtured us, and her mind cloud intertwined with our own—uploading her inner data as ours, before we even left the womb. So, it’s no wonder who we are as women and as men has much to do with the mother program in our mind cloud.

Our mother’s program shapes what it means to us to be women and men; how we identify with those roles; and how we interact and engage (or don’t) in relationship...