I get you. You did everything in your power to keep your marriage alive and, with it, the welfare of your children. You begged him to go to therapy together to improve your relationship, but he never did. He never listened. Nor was he interested. For him, you were the only one responsible and the only one who had to change. The problem is that you started to believe it and have self-esteem problems. Instead of supporting you on your path of growth and self-improvement, he cut your wings every...