Uninstalling the Unfairness Program to Resonate with Justice

Never forget that justice is what love looks like in public.

— Cornel West 

It seems like the world we live in isn't a safe place for everyone. Maybe you were misjudged or treated inequitably due to learned prejudice and the unconscious bias of others. Or perhaps you weren't aware you were the one inflicting injustice due to the injustice program you are resonating with and unconsciously repeating from those you grew up or surrounded yourself with. 

The unanswered need for fairness is among the deepest, most painful unvoiced conditions. Our need to live a fair life and in a fair world is a longing that keeps remaining unheard because we've learned to be repressed and are afraid to express our truth. Each of us is resonating with different information. We don't realize that by only resonating with parts and not resonating with the whole, we're also perpetuating injustice. 

So, no matter how good your intentions are, when we resonate with parts, there will always be a part that we exclude—a part we don't resonate with. Injustice originates in not resonating with the whole. From this perspective, injustice is not something practiced by some but by most of us. The problem here is that we will continue to create an unfair reality if we don't become aware we are resonating with parts and choose to resonate with the whole.

Sadly, fairness is not something we learn at school. We’ve integrated fairness and unfairness through the justice and injustice experienced by those close to us—from our families, groups, communities, and the people we repeatedly spend time with or listen to.

The first time we were exposed to unjust treatment was while we were physically connected to our mother and developing in her womb. Experiences during this period—whether we were wanted or unwanted; whether we were repeatedly exposed to her biases, negative thinking, and emotions; or whether she suffered due to the unfair mistreatment of others—will codify information in our mind cloud and predispose us to resonate with unfairness and not to resonate with fairness. And this will affect what justice means for each of us.

But injustice doesn’t end there.

Injustice now comes, first in the shape of the tactics our parents (or those who replaced them) to domesticate us. The punishment-and-reward games they played with us to educate us, coax us to imitate their beliefs and preferred behaviors, and ensure we fit with the groups and subgroups we belong to and with society,  forged in unfairness.

Children just know almost intuitively when others have not been fair to them—whether preferential treatment was given to others or they were unjustly blamed for something they didn’t do or they received less than the promised share.

Second, injustice continues through the way the groups and subgroups we belong to are looked on and are treated, unfairly or not. And third, it is perpetuated by how people in these groups and subgroups treat each other as we absorb their toxic habits, emotions, beliefs, and unjust treatment and begin resonating and perpetuating these.

How those close to us mistreated each other and us will leave scars in our resonance that will keep attracting others’ unfairness and mistreatment through different faces, experiences, and situations. For example, let’s say we experienced abuse within our family system. This includes mistreatment received from our parents or those who replaced them, as well as from the different members of our tribes, such as our uncles, cousins, grandparents, and so on. How can we expect to treat our children better or not be mistreated by them if we as mother or father, our mom, our mother’s mom, our siblings, our father, and family were fighting or distant all the time? In the same way, if, for whatever reason, our parents criticized and mistreated each other or were absent, how can we expect to receive fair treatment from our life partners? 

Injustice comes from unconsciously copying and repeating others’ models and resonating with them. These models may include punishment, uncompassionate judgment, playing the game of victim and blamer, comparison, lack of love, lack of time, toxic emotions, addictions, unawareness, and lack of will to improve our relationship and become better human beings.

But sadly, injustice doesn’t stop there either. As we grew up, we were bullied and mistreated by our teachers and schoolmates and by or because of our families, gender, religion, skin color, nationality, political party, being authentic, and on and on.

How can we expect to be respected if, to earn others’ respect, we had to blindly follow what all the tribes and subtribes we were born into or identify with taught us without question—and this includes being unfair? 

How can we expect fairness from the world we live in if we experience repeatedly the unfair treatment of our parents, teachers, schoolmates, associates, politicians, government and so on?

Unfortunately, fairness is something we rarely upload to our mind cloud and unconsciously don’t resonate with.

Although we may seem disconnected on the outside, we’re more connected than we perceive. At a subatomic level, each of us is 99.9999999 percent energy, and collectively, we are one interconnected field. That’s why our resonance matters so much.

The information that each one of us uploads into our energetic field affects us individually and collectively as it travels through our interconnected energy fields.

According to Greek philosopher Aristotle, “We are what we repeatedly do.” And we aren’t exactly taught to be repeatedly fair. We’re all resonating with some kind of injustice.

So, that unfair way in which your family, religion, teachers, friends, partner, and coworkers repeatedly treated you becomes the social, gender, racial, political, and religious injustice that will perpetuate until each of us decides to delete the inner unfairness program we’re all resonating with.

Today, I invite you to ask yourself: What repeated information was I exposed to throughout my life to resonate with injustice? And what must I repeatedly do to resonate with fairness and to make this world a better world for everyone?

Many of us sometimes get so mad over the tremendous injustice in the world that we get triggered and become involved in unfairness. But by engaging in mistreatment, you’re not being part of the solution; you’re perpetuating the problem. Remember that unfairness is what you’re already resonating with.

Our extreme political polarization, internet outrage, and censorship stem from this victim blaming and injustice resonance. Dwelling on unfairness doesn’t change it; it’s counteractive, as our repetitive unfairness thinking will feed back our unfairness resonance. That’s why violence leads to more violence and injustice.

The solution doesn’t come from perpetuating unfairness resonance. 

We’ve become so good at living on autopilot that we don’t even notice we live others’ lives, fight others’ unfair battles, and attract unwanted resonance. For me, fairness and unfairness are directly related to what we’re resonating with today. Fairness is closely related to well-being and lasting peace. When there is no justice, there is no peace. 

We cannot change the mistreatment of the past, but we can change our resonance in the present.

Fairness is something that all people long for and seek to achieve individually and collectively. To experience real change, we all must download and clear the unfair information from our mind cloud and upload new information that supports our resonance with endless fairness. 

We all are hardwired to promote social cooperation and survive. The need to be fair is a precondition to living together in harmony and peace. When our energy is free of unfair information, we can resonate with who we authentically are—peaceful, loving beings. A world in which there is little or no fairness or where there is little hope for justice is a highly unstable world that invites perpetual conflict and violence.

Just as repetition of others’ unfairness data becomes the limiting program that runs us, through repetition, working from the inside, we can create a fairer program—a program based on kindness, compassion, inclusivity, and love. We can make a new neural network powerful enough to transcend habitual thinking and bring us together individually and collectively.

Without exception, we can all become just human beings. Through a conscious focus on higher qualities and daily practices, neuroplasticity can replace our existing unfair resonance and hardwire us to become the best version of ourselves.

Think of the injustices you have committed and/or experienced and the injustices you witness every day in the world. Imagine if you could attract a life and world without injustice by your commitment to working on your inner resonance every day. Isn’t this something worth working on? What are we waiting for? How about engaging in daily practices to resonate with the highest qualities and bring forth a just world and the best version of humanity. Begin your daily practice to uninstall the unfairness program and to resonate with justice individually and collectively from now on! The world needs you!

Crystal LIGHT!

Beatriz