Turbulence in Our Romantic Relationships: A Pathway to Our Crystal Blueprint

Are you struggling because you split from your partner or because you’re thinking about doing so? Is a recent or past divorce causing you to feel unworthy or incapable of moving forward, uncertain about your future, or simply trapped in the pain of your loss? Whatever the stage or whatever the reason, when a chosen life partner is no longer that person in our lives, suffering is almost inevitably part of the equation. But as strange as it may seem, these painful situations can also become the pathway through which you can uncover the real you—your crystal blueprint.

Most of us are not aware that we are living our lives on autopilot, living others’ stories, and following programming that doesn’t belong to us. Just as this happens to us individually, so does it happen to our partners. Thus, our life in partnership becomes a labyrinth constructed of the combined information from the two. There is our information—which we unconsciously learned from others but believe is ours—and the unconsciously learned information our partner has accepted as his or her own. Today, we’re going to talk about divorce or splitting from a partnership.

In the world that we have learned to live, the term separation is part of the daily word. We learn from a very small age to distinguish ourselves or stand out from the rest, instead of growing together or helping each other. But beyond what we have learned to believe, in the subatomic world, invisible to our eyes, we are interconnected fields of energy. Separation does not exist in the way we’ve come to think of it, as nothing in the universe is separate. We are all interconnected, as we all live immersed in an ocean of vibrating energy. Thus, we don’t end our relationships; they simply are transformed. From this awareness, our role is to consciously choose what we want our relationships to be transformed into.

First, it’s important to remember that you and your partner (or former partner) are two people, each with your own set of unconsciously learned programming, patterns, and energy. You joined your lives to walk the path together or, rather, combine your energies and transform yourselves.

The problem arises when we remain in our comfort zones, closed in our learned beliefs and attitudes,  instead of transforming ourselves.

Looking back on my life and with the experience of two divorces, I understood that most of the problems originated when my former partners and I repeated on autopilot learned unconscious patterns. I, as a woman, repeated the beliefs and attitudes I’d gained from my mother. And they, as men, in the same way, repeated the attitudes and behaviors they’d adopted from their respective masculine models. Both I and my former partners repeated unconscious behaviors that originated in our cultures, religions, and genders. This may be perceived as being “possessed” by the thoughts of others. In this way, our internal content becomes a program that drives us to respond by default to the content of others, instead of responding from our own authentic information—our crystal blueprint.

From this perspective, our partner could be an unconscious representation of one of our parents or role models, the character from our favorite movie, our friend from childhood, or the perfect prototype constructed by our society or culture. He or she will activate the dormant patterns we’ve unconsciously learned during our lives—both positive and negative. Our partner, thus, becomes the perfect mirror to reflect what we need to work on ourselves and deprogram—the programming that is running us.

The information that we reject in our partner is really the information that our inner program lacks. Integrating this information means that we must open ourselves to it. But in order to do so, we first have to transcend the programming we have. And this implies our transformation. In other words, our partner becomes the pathway through which we become our crystalline, transparent selves.

When we don’t choose to transform ourselves consciously, by resonance, we will keep attracting to our lives the same situations over and over again. The same situations will repeat even if you change your partner because it is not outside circumstances that create your reality but your inner programming. When we divorce or choose to separate ourselves from the other person, we are often actually doing it from our inability to transform ourselves because we remain stuck in our learned beliefs and behaviors.

What many of you do not know is that, when we don’t consciously choose to transform from the inside, we live in a cycle of endless suffering. For me, suffering originates when we identify with learned beliefs instead of our authentic information.

Working internally and consciously with crystals helped me to realize many things. I managed to transform my internal contents and, thus, to change my internal resonance and my reality.

I was able to reconnect with my original information, my own transparency, and my crystal blueprint. Today, I can say that I am living my best version of reality and share this story with all of you.

As Socrates says, “An unexamined life is not worth living.” The relationships we choose, even when we choose to change them, perhaps by divorce, are a mirror through which we can examine ourselves.

Today, looking back, I understand that it was my inability to be open and choose consciously to free myself of my learned contents, as well as the inability of both of my ex-husbands to see their learned contents, that truly separated us.

It was not the external circumstances that really separated us but the internal contents of our minds. If we had both chosen to work consciously, our story might have been a different one.

When one partner rejects his or her own conscious evolution or that of his or her partner by identifying with his or her beliefs or inner program, the transformation can come from the outside. One of the ways this is expressed is through the process of divorce or splitting a partnership.

The suffering I experienced after my former partners and I chose to end our relationships, during each divorce, cracked my internal program. Of course, this happened with the help of crystals.

Although it may feel as though everything is falling apart, it is truly our beliefs that are falling apart. In truth, we can rebuild—and do so based more closely on our crystal blueprint—using crystals as tools.

Our path provides us many opportunities to awaken to our true selves. Relationships and the turbulence they can bring are such opportunities. So too can transforming our relationships by way of divorce or splitting from a partner be an opportunity for personal awakening.

As we experience the crisis that accompanies this change, crystals can be a guiding light within the darkness. They can help us find our transparent light that can lead us to our best options of life—our crystal blueprint.  

Crystal LOVE!

Beatriz