The Crystalline Mother: Restoring Our Original Bond with Ourselves

I look for her, but she seems to evade me. I look for her loving look, her words of encouragement, her inspiration, her company, her affection, her unconditional support, her love. I’m still looking. Please don’t leave me! Hey, Mom, I’m here. Would you like to be with me? To share some time with me—without judging me? Mother, I’m not perfect! Mother, are you listening? Can you love me as I am? Are you there?

How many of us have found ourselves in this same situation with our mothers?

The sad thing is that the story doesn’t end there. We carry it with us wherever we go—because it lives within us.

The mother is the portal through which we come into this world, in charge of building the program of how we relate to the world and to ourselves. For a woman, the mother creates the structure of her relationship with her inner self; with women in her life; and as mother, daughter, friend, and wife or companion. For a man, his mother builds his relation with his inner self; his intuition; and also with women in his life, daughters, friends, partners, and in other relationships.

Take another look at the first paragraph of this blog. Do you still feel the same way about your mother no matter how old you are? About your daughters or stepdaughters? Your girlfriends? About your relationships?

Many people will say, “But my relationship with my mother was exceptional.” My question would be: Exceptional according to whom? Your mother’s parameters or your crystalline parameters?

You see, we all have our inner stories that have programmed us in certain ways, even if we are not aware of them. Your exceptional mother is no exception and, maybe without her awareness, is pulling you away from your crystalline path and your true source of well-being.

Our mother’s program begins the moment we are in our mother’s womb. Imagine how affected your program is if you were given to another mother or family through adoption or if you were born in the middle of a war or family or political conflict.

Everything we live creates layers within us that hinder our direct contact with our original information—our crystal blueprint—creating resonance and all sorts of imbalances in our life. Our mother program will reflect in different aspects of our life.

For example, maybe you think the problem you have with another person is the other person’s fault, but that situation keeps repeating with other people as well. This shows an internal program that you have to become aware of and deactivate.

In reality, our experiences are generally what we let into our minds. As we are not aware of most of what we let in, it’s important to work consciously on ourselves.

In the quantum energy world, entanglement explains how particles that interact with each other become permanently correlated or dependent on each other’s states and properties to the extent that they effectively lose their individuality and, in many ways, behave as a single entity.

Quantum entanglement between two particles can help us understand the close relationship we each have with our biological mother—that person who brought us from the immaterial to the material world—and why our crystalline bond with her lives within us, no matter our proximity, age, or beliefs.

In quantum mechanics, the principle of quantum entanglement or non-locality states, “For an action at one point to have an influence at another point, something in the space between the points, such as a field, must mediate the action.” This is the energetic world, imperceptible to the human eye, of which we are all part, that exists beyond matter.

Quartz crystals’ geometric inner structure resonates with the geometry of space, of the energetic field, allowing this energetic interaction. Crystals have the ability to restore our original bond with our mother beyond the layers of information acquired in our motherhood experiences.

Restoring our crystalline mother is restoring our balance and our original loving bond with ourselves—our crystal blueprint.

Personally, I have been there. I closely relate to the words I shared with you in the first paragraph. I lived this cycle with my mother—and with people I called friends, as well as with my daughter and stepdaughters. I’ve also witnessed the same cycle through the experiences of my clients in one-on-one sessions and workshops. The same pattern repeats. And all roads lead to our relationship with our mother.

My relationship with my mother was never easy. How could it ever be with a person who was conceived in the midst of the horrors of the Second World War and experienced its aftermath in her mother and those close to her? The patterns of my mother’s program have affected my own program all my life, bringing by resonance very painful experiences. I was not aware of all this until I committed myself to my own personal work and to working specifically on my mother wounds. Used as tools, the crystals revealed to me not only the patterns but also the source from which they originated. And layer after layer, I was able to transcend them and recover the original crystalline loving bond with my mother.

Today you are being invited to address and let go of those areas in your life that were affected by your mother program to make room for the crystalline mother to emerge and the new resonance with your crystalline life.

Crystal resonance!