Planting the First Seed: Unification within Our Families

"All problems come from the family."

— Alejandro Jodorowsky

We’re living in times where separation has become an epidemic. Believe it or not, it all started with our families.

Surprising?

Not so much, once we realize that our family came first and taught us everything we know about how to perceive and interact with the world around us. For most, family (or those who replaced them) is the single most important influence in our life. And how can it not be? After all, through our families, our domestication process began. At home, we learn to fit in and comply with the groups and subgroups we belong to and with society.

Family members are our first teachers and role models. Through them, we learned what to do and what not do, how to behave, what to believe, how to feel, what to reject and what to accept—and our first separation programs. The problem is, when we choose one part (our family), we exclude the rest (humanity). Yes! It’s from our families that we learn to exclude the rest, but additionally, within our families, we learn how to exclude each other too—even our closest ones. Now multiply the separation programs and resonance by the number of families in the world, and you can understand why we’re so separated and why the world is the way it is today.

I’ve been excluded from or because of family groups many times for different reasons. I’ve been left out of my stepdaughters’ pictures. After my divorce, I was excluded from participating in my children’s lives for a time due to family biases and the power of separation programs. I’ve been not invited to events because of my family’s religion. I’ve been discriminated against, mistreated, and villainized by other families for not being aligned with their beliefs. Think for a moment of all the people being left out for wanting to talk about ideas others reject.

When you look back over your life, what are the times when you’ve felt the sting of exclusion because of family programs? How about the times when you were on the excluding side of the equation?

Let’s consider, too, how our family separation programs play a role in ours or others’ ability to consider new ideas and evolve through new perspectives.

How many times have you heard, “I don’t want to talk about that,” or, “I don’t like people to tell me what to do”? I’ve heard this answer not once but many times from members of my own family when they’re exposed to new ideas. Rejection and being closed to new ideas are among the main signs of being under a family program spell.

It’s understandable. It’s easier to act from separation, now our comfort zone.

But we forget an essential thing: Despite our family program, without exception, energetically, we are all interconnected.

Separation is an illusion created by our minds, by the repeating information we’re exposed to 24/7 and have been exposed to since conception—starting with the data from our family clan.

How can we begin making changes?

We can take baby steps. For example, we can become aware of repeating family patterns, specifically those that separate us from others. Ask yourself: What among my family patterns is attracting separation resonance? What can I do not to exclude anyone?

We can work consciously to create changes that enable connection with others. For example, we can open our family circle to new family members—our new stepmom or stepdad, our stepbrothers or stepsisters, or our new son- or daughter-in-law.

We can consciously choose to think outside our family box. This means going beyond the limiting choices we integrated from family and including new and different ideas in our repertoire—to become open to accepting more and rejecting less.

Family is not about indoctrinating children’s behaviors and beliefs—shaping them into who we want them to be; it’s not about cloning us. A family must be a safe place where we can feel free to express ourselves and live as who we authentically are without judgment.

Why keep imitating your mother, father, grandmother, grandfather, aunt, or any other member of your family clan? Why copy others’ molds that resonate with separation? How about, instead, thinking outside of the pack and being authentically you? How about opening our families to resonate with higher values such as kindness, compassion, and inclusivity?

What’s the difference between religious segregation; discriminating for skin color, political party, or nationality; and separating for family? As long as our families teach us to differentiate ourselves at home, we’ll differentiate ourselves outside the home. To bring togetherness to our world, change must begin within our own families and within each of us. As Viktor Frankl said, “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”

It’s crucial to heal our family’s separation programs to bring togetherness to the world.

As a family member, I invite you today to ask yourself this question: What do I need to say and do in order to create nondivisiveness in our world?

In our energetic universe of interconnected fields, it makes sense that family information affects not only our family group but also our human family.

Every choice you make involves downloading information from your family program. Next time you make a choice, I invite you to ask yourself: What can I do to choose unity with each of my words, each of my actions and behaviors, and my way of thinking, instead of choosing options that separate?

To bring change to the world, our families’ programs must evolve. I invite you today to empower your process of transcending family separation programs with quartz crystals. When, through resonance, you choose a crystal through the screen, your authentic self is finding the unique tool best suited to help you shed programming that isn’t serving you and resonate with the best of you—including togetherness. There is much to crystal healing that you don’t yet know. Working with crystals, you can even help bring togetherness to the world. Want to learn more? Book a crystal healing package today.

Crystal WHOLENESS!

Beatriz