How Can I Become a Crystalline Mother?

May 12, 2019

When I googled the word mother, this is what I found: “Your mother is the woman who gave birth to you. You can also call someone your mother if she brings you up as if she was this woman” (collinsdictionary.com).

 

Elsewhere, I found “The Meaning of Being a Mother”: “A mother is a selfless, loving human who must sacrifice many of their wants and needs for the wants and needs of their children. A mother works hard to make sure their child is equipped with the knowledge, skills and abilities to make it as a competent human being” (Livestrong.com).

 

Yet another site says, “Mothers are the emotional backbones of the family. They provide the holding place for everyone’s feelings and do their best to keep us from being hurt” (psychologytoday.com).

 

Gee! As a mother, I feel intimidated by all these messages!

 

Have you ever realized how many unconscious messages you receive daily from your immediate environment—without your complete awareness—about society’s preconditions to fit the perfect mother model? These messages unconsciously create inner programs about: What does it mean to be a mother? What defines a good mother? What are the qualities of a mother? What should mothers do?

 

To qualify as a good mother, these “must-dos” are expected from all mothers. Sometimes, transparency can be hard to cultivate in a society that has placed in our minds so many unconscious burdens, demands, and commands.

 

Without questioning, we seek and copy existing mother models to deal with our inexperience as new mothers and surrounding wants and conditions. In this process, we copy our mothers, our grandmothers, our sisters, our friends, or any other person who is close to us. We inform ourselves, turning to existing literature, podcasts, videos, blogs, social media posts, and on and on.

 

We copy and have a tendency to standardize our children’s upbringing according to the patterns we learned from our families, society, religion, culture, as well as our own personal experiences.

 

Our experiences as daughters and sons of our mothers impact and shape our approach to life as parents, healers, and leaders—and thus, our world. They have done so from far back into the past. And they will continue to have this percussive effect for generations to come.

 

The descendants of mothers who were raised without a mother, mothers who were born to surrogate mothers or to mothers who lived in the throes of alcohol or drug addictions, mothers who struggled due to war or divorce, or mothers who bore and raised unwanted children are impacted by the unconscious messages and patterns created by these circumstances. These are just a few of the many situations that might have compromised your transparency, causing you to resonate over and over with unwanted situations and bringing uneasiness to you and your loved ones.

 

I remember finding out I was going to be a mother for the first time—I wanted to be the best mom. I really tried to be the best mom, but the information I had inside my unconscious was counteracting all the good intentions I had as a mother. And how could it not? My mother was raised by a mother who didn’t have a mother. As a consequence, I was raised as if as I didn’t have a mother. And I didn’t have any idea how to be one; neither did I know how to be the “good mother” society was expecting me to be. I remember struggling many times in my mother role and asking myself: How can I become a better mother?!

 

In his 1981 A New Science of Life, Cambridge University biologist Rupert Sheldrake described the “morphic resonance” hypothesis. Morphic resonance deals with the ability of organisms to pick patterns of learning from an energy field with no direct physical contact with this information. Sheldrake suggested that the exchanges of information occur due to resonance and information exchange between similar energy fields—between the existing energy field of the organism and the universal energy field of information (Rupert Sheldrake, A New Science of Life: The Hypothesis of Formative Causation [Los Angeles: J.P. Tarcher, Inc., 1981]).

 

In nature, no one teaches a lioness, a bird, a snake, or a fish how to be or act like mothers. They just are! They are, because they lack beliefs and can resonate and access the universal field of information due to their transparency.

 

We have learned from our surroundings that the best way to learn is to copy previous or preexisting models. But maybe there is another option—and that is simply being transparently us.

 

Let’s return to the question at hand: How can we become better mothers? By reconnecting with our transparency—by being authentic. In order to allow resonance with the universal field of information, it’s important to become transparent.

 

In one way or another, we all are unconsciously resonating with our internal learned beliefs and experiences. Every day, I am more convinced that, to become better parents, we have to become transparent—we must resonate with who we really are. For this, it’s important to prioritize our conscious internal work, where crystals can be great healing tools to become aware, transcend and heal unconscious learned information.

 

I invite you to give a crystalline experience to your kids and engage from today forward as parents, daughters, and sons in conscious personal work to leave to future generations a better world. If you choose to deepen your personal work, here is a link: The Crystalline Mother.

 

Crystal LOVE! 

Beatriz

 

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